Wednesday, September 14, 2011

Radical Attraction - A Law of Attraction Story

Radical Attraction is a novel of a Steve's adventures which involve in the visitation of difficulty and disaster. Through these disasters, Steve meets the mysterious Gus. A gentelman of suspect fashion sense he takes Steve under his wing and introduces him to the Law of Attraction. 


It seems Gus has a "secret" system  which utilises the Law of Attraction and he begins to teach Steve how to create the things he desires in his life.


For more stuff, go to my website:

www.practicalattraction.com.au


Chapter 2

Once Steve was back in his car he felt energised, as some of the weight of all the turmoil in his life had been lifted. As he drove back towards the office he thought about how would like his job to be.  He let his mind wander enjoying the good feelings that arose as envisioned some big new accounts. He also saw a lot of is little small accounts growing to contribute lots of new revenue. He was feeling good about himself and the business just flowed.

He held these good feeling thoughts until he arrived back at the office. As he passed reception Susie was the cute little receptionist called.

“Hang on minute Steve! There is a message for you.”

He double backed and took the message slip that Susie was holding in her hand and gave a smile.

“Thanks.” And headed off to his desk where he glanced at the note. It was from Dave Preston, the Purchasing Manager at Metcom, a company whose business Steve had been chasing their business for months. He quickly rang.

“Hi Dave. Steve Watkins from Speedeeway Freight.”

“Oh, hi Steve. Thanks for returning my call. I’ve just been through those new rates you dropped off last week and I’m happy to say I think that we can do business.”

“Hey that’s great. Thanks Dave. That’s great news. Can I drop off the agreement tomorrow, say 2-30.”

“2-30 sounds great. See you then.”

“See you then.”

And just like that, Steve had hooked his biggest account ever. Almost skipping with joy he headed down to his boss’s office to give him the good news knowing this would take a lot of the pressure off him.

“Great stuff Steve!” Exclaimed his boss on hearing the good news. “I knew you could do it. This will do your figures no end of good.”

Steve enjoyed the glowing feeling of success. He couldn’t help thinking of the apparent coincidence between the advice Gus had given him to focus on the solution instead of the problem and a monster account landing his lap seemingly out of the blue.
On the drive home he felt happy, with the knowledge that something had finally gone right for him. He was looking forward to getting home to enjoy the kids and share a home cooked meal from his lovely wife Jenny. It had been a bit bumpy between he Jenny recently. She was constantly moaning that “all” her friends had new cars and were going on great holidays, whilst she still had to put up with her 5 year old Toyota, which wasn’t brand new but was still a nice little car. But it wasn’t a BMW or a fancy four wheel drive so it was apparently not good enough. As for the holidays, although they hadn’t been overseas to Bali or Thailand or such, they still had what seemed very nice holidays up the north coast but they just couldn’t quite keep up with the Joneses and this was a real problem for Jenny who valued social status. It seemed things had gotten a bit better recently and Jenny was mostly being nice to him and so Steve was confident they could get things back on an even keel again.


He had a good run through the traffic and soon he pulled into the driveway of his house. It wasn’t the biggest or flashest houses in the street but it was very comfortable and it was home. He came to the driveway and eased the car up towards the garage. But something was wrong. Jenny’s car wasn’t in the garage and the outdoor setting which sat on the paved area at the rear of the house had disappeared and there was only one light on inside the house where normally expect to lights to be on in at least a couple of rooms.


He got out of the car, taking his brief case with him. He made his way to the back door, opening it and stepping inside.

The scene that greeted him was a huge shock. There were his kids sitting in the middle of the family room, which was totally devoid of furniture including the wide screen TV which was Steve’s pride and joy.

“Mum’s left us.” They had wailed.

Apparently whilst the kids were at school and Steve at work, she had brought in the removalist and stripped the house of everything of value. There was a dear Steve letter on the kitchen bench that detailed her anger and frustration at the life of struggle with Steve. She had done her bit, deserved better and so it was Steve’s turn to take care of the kids and so she had take only what was rightfully hers. She went onto say that there was no point in trying to speak to her because as far as she was concerned Steve and the kids were now and in a past life and she was going to do whatever she wanted.

It was like he had been hit with a sledgehammer. Any happiness from his success this afternoon instantly evaporated as the starkness of his kids sitting in the middle of any empty house hit him. Anger welled up inside him as the deviousness and swiftness of his wife’s actions dawned on him. Fury swirled inside him. 

“So Mum wasn’t home you got home?”

“No. She just left a note on the door saying the keys were under the mat.”

“So why didn’t you ring me?”

“We did! But you didn’t answer.”

Steve fumbled for his mobile phone in his suit pocket. He pulled it out only to discover that the battery had gone flat.

“Damn! Sorry kids. The battery’s gone flat.”

“Dad. We’re hungry!” Cried the kids, Joel and Stephanie. In spite of the disaster that had just exploded in his life, it was time for the day-to-day necessities. Cleaning up this mess could wait until rumbling stomachs had been silenced. So he bundled the kids in the car and headed of to the local burger place.  The kid’s chose their favourite meals and Steve went for the biggest burger they had. The young girl behind the counter totalled up the bill.

“$21-50!” She said with a bright smile.

Steve rummaged around in his wallet and pullout debit card and passed it over.

The girl swiped the card and keyed in the amount. Steve dutifully keyed his pin. A few seconds past as the machine whirred into life.

“Declined.” Announced the burger girl.

Steve was stunned. It couldn’t be. He had just been paid 2 days go and there should have been plenty of money in the account.

“Can we try again?”

“Sure.” Replied the burger girl.

The machine whirred once again.

“I’m sorry sir. It’s been declined again.”

Steve pulled out his credit card.

“Declined.”

He goes for his ‘emergency” credit card.

“Declined.”

Steve was confused. How could this be?

He found $15 in his wallet and asked the girl if it was ok if he went out to his car where he knew he had some coins, which he kept for parking meters.

Soon he was back, having scrounged up the required $6.50. He and the kids settled in one of the booths in the burger place and hungrily attacked their meals.

Steve’s head was spinning. What had happened to all his cards? There was no way he had “maxed” them out and a feeling of dread washed over him. In short time the burgers were demolished, Steve and the kids soon arrived home. Steve found that Jenny had left one other thing behind which was the small 25 year old TV that they used to use in their bedroom. He dug it out of the wardrobe and set up for the kids to watch while he got his head around what had happened.

Since the family computer had been taken, he found the charger for his smart phone and used to check his bank account balance. His heart pumped vigorously as a big fat zero stuck out from the statement where there had been a healthy $6000 a couple of days earlier.

Quickly checked his credit cards. They had both been used to their limit. $15000 on one and $10000 on the other.

“Jenny!” He spat out her name in contempt.

The credit card statements detailed a litany of wild spending. Clothes, shoes, jewellery, spa treatments and some very hefty cash advances. She had wiped him out!

The true magnitude of the situation dawned on him. Stuck in house with 2 kids with no food, no money or furniture except for three single beds and a 25 five year old TV!

Anger welled up inside as he thought of Jenny’s audacity to take everything they had, except for the house, leaving him to look after the kids with nothing. Then he had a gnawing thought.

“The house!”

Steve made a mental note to ring the bank and check that the mortgage was still ok.

By this time he was boiling with fury. What was he to do? He couple of deep breathes. The anger subsided a little and he decided to ring his Mum and see if she could help him out.

It was a difficult phone call as his Mum, Joy, had never liked Jenny and so she had taken the opportunity to drop in a couple of I told you so’s, which had really stung. In the end she offered some money to get him by and breakfast for him and the kids in the morning, but the payback would be the need to provide a blow by blow and suffer a few more I told you so’s.

It was getting late, so he began to herd the kids off to bed. Once they had brushed their teeth, amazingly Jenny had left the electric tooth brushes, he tucked them into bed and made his way to the remaining bed in the guest room and propped himself up on the pillows and let the amazing events of today to swirl around him.




He awoke in the morning, well he got out of bed, which is more accurate, as very little sleeping was done. He made the kids get ready to go over to his Mum’s, about 5km away, for breakfast.

His night in bed had been filled with a mixture of amazement at the goings on at the park and encounter with Gus, the big win at work and the incredible mess that Jenny had left behind.

His mind was filled with expletives as he masticated over how deceitful and selfish she had been. She hadn’t even said anything. Not even a, “I’m unhappy, what can we do?”. She had just left and taken everything she could get her hands on. He could understand her doing it to him. He was a big boy and could look after himself. But the kids! That was a different question. How could you just up and leave your own children? It beggared belief!

They soon arrived at Joy’s house and she was kind and conciliatory, with not even one gloat. In fact she was most worried about the Stephanie and Joel, and the impact of their mother up and leaving might have. Whilst Joy got breakfast organised, Steve rang his boss and explained he had a family disaster and would not be at work until lunchtime so he could get things sorted a bit. It’s amazing what a good sale can do, as he was most understanding and told Steve to take whatever time he needed.

Sitting at the breakfast bar of Joy’s kitchen, they all munched through a breakfast of fruit salad, cereal and some chunky toast smothered in strawberry jam. It’s amazing how this made them all feel a whole lot better after the ordeal of last night. Joy suggested that the children stay with her for a couple of days while Steve got things back on a even keel, which seemed a really good idea.

“You know I’ve still got the furniture from the beach house, when we sold it after your Dad died. It’s in the garage still and you’re more than welcome to have it. And you can take my old fridge too.” Judy offered.

“That would be great Mum. That will help us get out of this jam.”

He gave his Mum a kiss and got the kids organised to head off to school. Judy discreetly handed a bundle of $100 bills and Steve started to feel little better. At least he could survive until the weekend when he could get himself a bit more sorted.

He and the kids jumped in the car and he drove the short distance to the school. Finding a parking spot to drop the kids was always fraught with danger and as a number of parents treated it like some sort of demolition derby. The use of indicators seemed to be optional and radical u-turns across the paths the regular stock in trade.

As Steve approached the parking area in front of the school he strangely had a flash of what Gus has said to him, “you need to change your focus and thoughts to how you want things and not how they are.”

Steve changes his thought from the usual chaos he expected to easily sweeping to a just vacated spot. Beautiful!

This thought made him feel a lot better and was a significant improvement on the apprehension he was previously feeling.

As he approached the first car in the long line of cars outside the school he could see a vacant spot about half way up the line. Steadily they approached the spot. They were 30 metres away. Surely it was theirs. All of sudden there was a screech of tires and all of a sudden a big black BMW SUV performed a radical U-turn right in front of them, roaring into the vacant spot.

Steve held his cool. No swearing or cursing today as was his usual practice.

 “It mustn’t be the one. “ He thought calmly holding his thought of sliding into the perfect car park.

He continued to glide up past the line of cars. The end of the line was only 20 metres away.

“Stay calm.” He thought. “I’m gonna get the right spot.”

Then like magic the indicators on the first car in the line turned on its indicator and slid out in front of Steve, allowing him to drive into the first spot! Something that had never happened to him before!

“What was that?” he thought to himself as he sat in the number one spot waiting for his Stephanie and Joel to get out.

“What’s happening there?” He continued to think.

“See ya Dad!” cried the kids as the alighted from the car.

“See ya! Have a great day!”

And with that, the kids ran off towards the school date to begin their day.

He watched Stephanie and Joel disappear amongst the throng of kids in the schoolyard, put his indicator on, looked up in his rear vision mirror checking every was clear, he eased into the traffic. He’d gone a mere twenty metres down the road when Steve heard an almighty crash!

Looking in the rear vision mirror he could a Mercedes SUV had “T-boned” a Toyota sedan as they competed for the prime spot that Steve had just vacated. He shook his head in amazement as he glanced at the mayhem that had occurred as a result of the competition for the car space he had recently vacated. He could see a cloud of steam pouring from the Mercedes as the view disappeared from his rear vision mirror.


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Thursday, September 8, 2011

Radical Attraction - A Law of Attraction Story

Radical Attraction is a novel of a Steve's adventures which involve in the visitation of difficulty and disaster. Through these disasters, Steve meets the mysterious Gus. A gentelman of suspect fashion sense he takes Steve under his wing and introduces him to the Law of Attraction. 


It seems Gus has a "secret" system  which utilises the Law of Attraction and he begins to teach Steve how to create the things he desires in his life.


For more stuff, go to my website:

www.practicalattraction.com.au


Chapter 1


Another day, another disaster! The Pressure had been on Steve for sometime. In the last three months he had been halled into the bosses office on numerous occasions, where it was made clear to him that his performance had better improve or he was out of a job.

There had been a time where he was free of this kind of pressure because he easily and regularly made or exceeded his targets. The rounds of the Sales Manager’s office Speedeeway Freight, was an experience had by other people in the sales team, not Steve. But the last three months had been really difficult. No matter what he did his performance continually deteriorated and he was becoming overwhelmed by the fear and apprehension of losing his job. He just didn’t know what to do!

In frustration he looked for refuge in a nearby park at lunch time, hoping the companionship of the ducks and the swans that swam on the lake would give him some relief from the extreme stress he was experiencing. The fear of losing job and infiltrated into his daily work and things just didn’t flow like they used to.

He had found the park a great refuge in the past when he had to struggle with life’s battles. The ducks clucked away doing their daily business and the swans glided past in a picture of perfection giving some relief to his human predicaments. Somehow he always felt better for his little escapes here.

And so it was today. The fear of losing his job still reverberating inside him as he made his way to one the benches dotted around the lake, depositing himself on the seats teak slats. He opened the lunch bag that he had brought with him to discover what delicacies his wife had bestowed upon him today. Some days it was a very pleasant surprise and others it was the dregs of the left overs from the previous night which were often a struggle to eat.

Today it was a pleasant surprise. His favourite roast chicken on some great sour dough and as he started munch, the delicious sandwich he began to dwell on the events of the morning.

How had it come to this? Why now was he suffering all this difficulty, because to be truthful, work was not the only of his life where he was struggling. He was having plenty of ups and downs in his marriage, his doctor was giving him grief about him about his weight and health and money had become an issue as his sales results stumbled. It was like Murphy’s Law was running his life!

What was he to do? There just seemed to impasses in every aspect of his life. As the despair began to build within him he was startled by a figure appearing next to the park bench.

“Excuse me.” Said the very dapper looking gentleman standing next to the seat.

“Do you mind if I join you. This is my favourite seat.”

“Mine too.” Grumbled Steve. “You get a great view of the whole park from here.”

“You’re right. Best seat in the house!”

Steve managed to grab a glimpse of the gentleman who had just joined him on “the best seat in the house.” He was wearing a brown velvet suit with a violet coloured shirt and an indigo bow tie. Whatever was this gentleman’s calling, it certainly wasn’t fashion design and Steve chuckled to himself about the rather unusual fashion statement that was being made.

There was something else unusual about this man apart from his attire. His aged seemed to be indeterminable. From one angle he seemed old but different perspective there seemed to a youthful radiance.

“What’s the matter son? You’re looking a bit troubled there.”

Steve was surprised that his despair was so visible.

“Yeah. Life is serving a bit me a turd sandwich at the moment.”

“I can’t imagine that to be too pleasant.” The mysterious gentleman replied with a chuckle.

“ No, not at all.”

Steve wasn’t the type to burden others with his troubles but there was something about this gentleman that just made want to get it all off his chest and before he knew it he was detail all his life travails. The job. The wife. His health. His weight. Money. The whole shooting match. As he did the suffocating weight of his troubles gradually lifted. The helplessness he had felt when arrived at the park had eased.

“Well that does sound as though you have got yourself into to some kind of pickle.” Said the innovatively dressed gentleman as Steve came to the end of his tale of woe.

“Sure have and you know I feel a how lot better for you letting me talk about it and I’m a little embarrassed because I don’t even know your name.”

“Augustus.”

“Augustus!” Proclaimed a little surprised by the formality of the man’s name. “Please to meet you Augustus. My name is Steve.”

“Hi Steve. You can call me Gus for short.”

“Ok Gus it is!”

“You know Steve. One of the things I found in life is that when you get yourself in a pickle like you have, you tend to focus on the mess you’re in and the fear and possible disasters that could occur and focus on a solution.”

“You know you’re right. I’ve been in such a panic and fear. I have felt so overawed that I haven’t be able to see a way out.”

“That’s right. It’s very common for this to happen. So one thing I have found is that the solution has to be different to the problem.”

“The solution has to be different to the problem? ” Steve repeated.

“That’s right! You can’t create a solution by focusing on the problem.”

“That kinda makes sense.”

It does. So what it means is that you need to change your focus and thoughts to how you want things to become. Not how they are and all the difficulty you are experiencing.”

“Wow!” Gasped as he had some sort of epiphany.

“You were telling me about the problems you’ve had in making sales. All your focus has been on what will happen if you don’t make your target and how you might lose your job.”

“Yeah. I’ve been so worried.”

“What instead you focussed on the type of results that you want and worked at feeling good and expecting good results. Do you think that’s a better way to go?”

“ Yeah. I think it’s a better way to go but I always seem to get overwhelmed by worry and fearI find it really hard to feel good!”

“At first it can be hard, but if you just take a moment to refocus your thoughts until you feel better about your predicament, you will be amazed at the difference it can make.”

“Now you put it that way, focussing on your fears doesn’t make sense. Does it? If you focus on the solution things can only get better!”

“Now you’re talking!”

“So what would be the best outcome at work?”

“I could land a big new account and maybe a couple of my other accounts could give us work they are currently giving to other carriers.”

“So picture that in your mind.”

“Ok.”

“How does it feel when you land that contract?’

“It feels great!”

“That feels a little better than all that worry you’ve been carrying around?”

“Sure does!”

“Ok. So remember that feeling and if you ever start being overwhelmed again with the fear of losing your job just remember that feeling and see what happens!”

“Alright. I’ll give it a go!”

At just that moment a woman’s screams filled the air.

“He’s got my purse!”

There was a pounding of feet and a man sprinting for his life came into sight from around the bushes that were at the side of the park bench where Steve and Gus were sitting. He had a black purse in his hand and was scurrying for the exit to the park.

All of sudden the thief was flying through air. He tangled with Gus’s foot, which he had been deftly extended, tripping the escaping man. There was a mighty thud as he landed flat on his face.

Steve instinctively jumped on his back, pinning him to the ground. A distraught woman then appeared panting from her pursuit.

“Well done!” She cried as she reached the place where Steve had the culprit pinned to the ground.

“I think you should call the police.” Advised Steve as deftly pushed the man’s face into the ground to suppress his continuing struggles to break free.

Soon the police arrived. Addresses and statements were taken and the would be offender was ushered towards the police divisional van for his transfer to the police station.

The owner of the purse, a tall attractive blond, thanked Steve and gave him a peck on the cheek, which made his day. Steve looked for Gus to thank him for his counsel but he was nowhere to be seen. He had disappeared as mysteriously as he had arrived.

Wednesday, April 27, 2011

Confidence and the Law of Attraction

The underlying essence of the Law of attraction is that you attract what is the focus of your attention. “Like attracts like”

Negative thoughts reflect an expectation that bad things naturally flow to you and what ever comes to you comes through struggle.

Positive thoughts reflect an expectation that life naturally brings good, positive experiences and there is a flow of joy and happiness.

A way of exploring this in action is to look at others who have achieved the pinnacle of success, because it follows that to have created success, at least some of their thoughts must be filled with ideas that bring success.

So what do the following people have in common?

The CEO of a company.

A leading actor or performer.

A top sales man.

A champion sportsman.

What do they exude?

Confidence!

Confidence is the expectation of success!

The CEO has the conviction of his previous business experience that he can turn a company around and create profits.

An actor or performer gains confidence for a successful performance through experience, training and rehearsal.

A top sales performer gains confidence in his experience to successfully influence peoples buying decision.

A champion sportsman has confidence in his ability from training and experience to take the last and winning shot.

Confidence comes from the expectation that you are going to succeed.

Conversely pessimism and un-happiness are brought upon by the expectation of difficult outcomes and failure. It is the dreading of the consequence of not achieving your desires. It’s the sinking feeling of here we go again! The terrible feeling in our stomach, as your mind maps out all the calamities that are headed your way. If your expectation is that the things will be difficult, then it is most likely that this is what you will experience.

EXPECTATION is an indicator of the type of thoughts and beliefs we are holding. It can give you a window as to what the sum total of all your thoughts and beliefs are. You could call it the barometer of your life as it is an accurate predictor of what is to come in your life.

A great way to ensure that your expectations are always positive is to:

“EXPECT THE BEST!”

So a good technique to monitor and improve the type of thoughts you hold and therefore what you are giving focus, is to regularly during the day, ask yourself: “WHAT AM I EXPECTING?”

Are you expecting success or failure?

If the feelings you find with in yourself are tinged with fear and worry the ask:

“What if I were EXPECTING THE BEST?”

What things would happen in the best possible circumstance?

The perfect day at the office.

A big deal comes you way.

You take an overseas holiday.

You buy a new house.

You meet great new people.

You have a romantic dinner with your partner.

You get a new car.

Whatever would be the best possible outcome for you.


These thoughts will bring confidence as they bring the expectation of success and as we know, the Law of Attraction dictates, “like attracts like”, and so this can only improve what we receive in our life.

“EXPECT THE BEST” is powerful statement and thought. It makes sense that if we expect the best in everything we are giving our attention to, then, we cannot help to create our best possible life.

If you would like to learn more about expectation and the Law of attraction, go to my web site:

www.practicalattraction.com.au

Wednesday, April 6, 2011

The Paradox of Wanting

For many people the Law of Attraction resonates as a valid way to attract what they desire in their lives. Unfortunately many struggle to effectively engage it and are disappointed with the lack of results.

Often the reason they are unable to gain traction with the Law of Attraction is the “Paradox of Wanting” This paradox exists because the basis of the Law of Attraction is that “like attracts like”. Therefore it follows that if your major focus is “wanting” of things or circumstances, then it is the experience of “wanting” that you will receive.

“I want more money.”

“I want a new car.”

“I want love.”

“I want great new clothes.”

“I want to travel,”

As “like attracts like” what you are going to experience is not the experience “having” your desires but the “wanting”. Therefore you will continue to be separated from you desires and you will continue the experience of “wanting”. This situation gives the appearance the Law of Attraction is not in play when actual fact it is bringing the focus of your thoughts. The experience of “wanting”.

This makes how you hold your thoughts and desires very important. If you hold a strong expectation of receiving your desires, then you cannot be separated from it by the paradox of wanting. So it is important to reframe the way we think of our desires. We can do this with intention.

“I intend to have more money.”

“I intend to have a new car.”

“I intend to have love.”

“I intend to have great new clothes.”

“I intend to have to travel.”

Statements made this way, eliminate any “wanting” or wishing”, as the focus is moved towards the completion of desires. Intention holds a positive expectation of receiving. It removes feelings of not having and lack. By holding our desires and dreams as pictures of completion, that is resonate with the feeling of already having it, you greatly increase the likelihood of receiving our desires.

Sunday, January 9, 2011

WHAT DO YOU EXPECT?

As I stated in my previous blog, I hae decided to become more attentive to my blog and so I have decided to post parts of my new e-book which is about expectancy. I have decided to ove from focussing on the Law of Attraction to this component of my Three Phases of Creation and use it has a tool for chnage and creation in peoples lives. I hope ypu enjoy it and comments would be gratefully received.

Best regards,

Graham.



Whatever your mind can conceive and believe it can achieve." --Napoleon Hill (1883-1970)


"You become what you think about." --Earl Nightingale (1921-1989)

“People become really quite remarkable when they start thinking that they can do things. When they believe in themselves they have the first secret of success.” Norman Vincent Peale.


When you look at the essence of what some of the world’s greatest motivational writer’s have written, achieving your desires comes down to what you think. That is the power of the mind to conceive and achieve. Now with the recent popularity of “The Law of Attraction” through the phenomenal success of “The Secret” movies and books with it’s message of attracting what of ever is the focus of your thoughts, you can see there is a weight of belief that our mind and thoughts can have a huge impact on what we experience in our life.

So if we accept these ideas, then by extension it must be a very short trip from here to our stupendous success and amazing life. Simply fill our minds with thoughts of brilliance, prosperity and abundance and wait for our awesome life to appear.

But humans are complex creatures and many of us have struggled and battled through our lives and learnt rules to life that are contrary to this. Therefore it can be difficult to modify all the negative thoughts and paradigms for our lives that we have developed whilst living our lives. So we write a list of positive affirmations. We subscribe to receive motivational sayings on our smart phone every day and surround ourselves pictures of all the things we desire. But alas, we subsequently experience little positive change to our lives. Why?

We decide we want a new house. We’ve clipped out photos from the real estate section of the newspaper of some stunning homes. Pool, location, garden. All the things you want!

But every time you look at these photos, there are some griping little thoughts that have become engrained in our psyche over the years of our life.

“It’s too expensive!”
“I’m never gonna live there.”
“Where am I going to get the money?”
“You’re just kidding yourself. Nothing like that has ever happened to me.”


You need a new car. The latest model. Mmmm! Alloy wheels, leather seats and enough power to tear the skin off your face when accelerating! Wicked!

But there they are! Those nagging little thoughts.

“Where are you going to get a car like that?”
“On your salary! Huh!”
“Your never gonna have a good car!”
“You’re dreaming!”

You want to meet your life partner. There is this really cute/hunky babe/guy at the gym. Go on. Go and make some small talk.

Once again! There are the whispers.

“I can’t do that! They’d never go out with someone like me!”
“I’m not thin enough.”
“They’re just going to say no.”
“It’ll never work.”

You want some money to pay all your bills, the accumulation of which seems never ending!

“I’m always in debt.”
“I’ll never earn enough money.”
“I’ll always be poor.”
“I always struggle with my budget.”

Together all these niggling little self comments actually define who we are, what we have and what we can do. They can have an accumulative affect, severely limiting the possibilities of what might occur in our lives. Most people experience these types of thoughts. A good test is to take a small pad and for one day “watch” these sneaky little thoughts and you will see how pervasive they are.

If we look at these thoughts through the prism of:

"You become what you think about." --Earl Nightingale (1921-1989)

Looking at the thoughts you recorded, what do you think you would become? Nothing very positive you would think. You can also look at the effect of these thoughts on you life by looking at from the other direction.

“What have I created in my life?”

Is your life a series joyful experiences, full abundance and prosperity or is a series of train wrecks full of impending doom, gloom and lack. Is this a good reflection of the type of thoughts that run through your head everyday?



Whether you believe it is because the frame of mind in which you make choices influences the outcome or it is alignment with unseen divine forces, what these thoughts are reflecting is “expectation”.

Negative thoughts reflect an expectation that bad things naturally flow to you and what ever comes to you comes through struggle.

Positive thoughts reflect an expectation that life naturally brings good, positive experiences and there is a flow of joy and happiness.



Another way of exploring this is to look at others that have achieved the pinnacle of success.

The CEO of a company.

A leading actor or performer.

A top sales man.

A champion sportsman.

What do they exude?

Confidence! Confidence is the expectation of success!

The CEO has the conviction of his previous business experience that he can turn a company around and create profits.

An actor or performer gains confidence for a successful performance through experience, training and rehearsal.

A top sales performer gains confidence in his experience to successfully influence peoples buying decision.

A champion sportsman has confidence in his ability from training and experience to take the last and winning shot.

Confidence comes from the expectation that you are going to succeed.


Conversely pessimism and un-happiness are brought upon by the expectation of failure. It is the dreading of the consequence of not achieving your desires. If your expectation is that the things will be difficult then it is most likely that this is what you will experience.

Expectation is the indicator of what our thoughts and beliefs will bring into our lives. This makes monitoring our expectations an incredible dynamic. If we were able to change our expectations, it would be an incredibly powerful tool as we would be able change what we receive in our lives!

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Achieving Vibrational Alignment To Receive Through The Law Of Attraction

It is easy to see that I have been ignoring this blog recently. Focussed on a E-book available at www.practicalattraction.com.au. But ihave noticed there is/are people regularly logging here and so I will once again try and reguarly post new material here. So here goes....

This article is more a question than an attempt to give answers.

A long time practitioner of meditation who takes time every morning to enjoy the deep relaxation and stress relieving benefits it gives. Recently I have had some new and interesting experiences which makes me wonder if other people have had similar experiences.

Suffering from, at times overwhelming fear, of impending doom from a financial situation which is not the best, I recently extended the length of my meditation to about thirty minutes, having usually grabbed a quick 20 minutes most mornings, With the extra time a very interesting thing happened. The calm and wellbeing I experienced in the past, greatly increased and I found I would reach a point where this went from a general state of feeling good to a tingling feeling throughout my body. I could feel this sensation in every cell of my body. A most amazing feeling!

At this time I also experienced an improvement in my daily life. A salesman by profession, I have been applying the principles of the Law of Attraction, in a quest to improve my results. I have had some success at times, with great sales appearing out of nowhere, but I have struggled with consistency, as I sometimes found it hard to stay in alignment with the thought and vibration of sales success. Now, I find that I have sort of memorised this vibration and am to able to attain and maintain this more readily.

So I began hypothesizing what this maybe. It seem I have reached of some sort of vibrational alignment. Is this the "Vortex" the Esther Hicks and Abraham speak of? The place of vibrational alignment where what is asked for is given and received? I hope so. My optimism and expectation that my financial position has improved and I have great belief that all will be well.

A while a go I received the flash of an idea which I call the "Three Phases of Creation". This is a process you can use daily to initiate and build the vibrations of the things you desire. I have used my time in the sales position I currently hold as a sort laboratory in the development of this idea and it seems the result are coming to bare. I am experiencing really positive feelings and having real life experiences.

If you would like to learn more about creating your desires through "The Law Of Attraction" and the "Three Phases of Creation, visit my web site: http://www.practicalattraction.com.au

Graham Trembath has been seeking to live a better life through enlightenment and spirituality for over 25 years and feels compelled to share his ideas and concepts to share the fruits of his journey so far.

If you would like learn more about Esther Hicks and Abraham and "The Vortex", visit: http://www.abraham-hicks.com

Tuesday, August 3, 2010

Daily Creation Process using the Law of Attraction

Life is about certainty not hope. Certainty is created by the reptition of a thought which overtime becomes accepted as a belief. It is this framework of beliefs that creates the life we live.


The Daily Framework

AS we have covered an awful lot of groungd in "My Law of Attraction Handbook" I giving you an outline of a process that we can use everyday to create your desires harnessing the Law Of Attraction. If you are unsure of the processes I am talking about, you go to the earlier chapters of the Handbook wherre you will find detailed explanations.

For this proces you will need a small notebook you can carry with you during the day or a "smart" phone or PDA with which you can take notes.

What we want to do on a daily basis is change our thought and feeling patterns about the things we desire and encounter everyday. Most of us have engrained thoughts about life and our role in it. This framework created our reality because it becomes what we have experience because it is what we are attracting.

"The key to success is to focus our conscious mind on things we desire not things we fear." ~Brian Tracy

1/ Days Start - Reboot and Refresh

To start the day I recommend meditation for at least 15 to 20 minutes, but 30 minutes is great. The importance of this is that it serves like rebooting a computer. It helps clear out negativities that you ma have collected during the previous day and allows us to start the day invigorated and fresh. As we are going to use our feelings as our compass as to how we are creating, clearing negativity becomes really important.

To change these thought patterns requires practice and patience. So to do this I offer a framework to use to help develop this and as time goes on you can adapt it to suit your needs to set the tone of your day.

The framework is based on using the Three Phases of Creation.

To revise three phases are:

Intention - commit
I intend to have my joyful right work.
I intend to travel overseas.
I intend to excel at my work.



Expectation - believe
I expect prosperity.
I expect fantastic adventures in my life.
I expect to meet new and interesting people.

Law - faith and certainty
I am abundant and debt free.
I am fit and healthy.
I am my right weight.


2/ Set the Tone
Dedicate a page in your note book. Put the date at the top and write what you intend for the day so that when feelings of fear and ill ease arrive during the day you can take a minute and "re-tune" your vibrations.

At your earliest convenience in the morning we should "intend" for the day. You can do this over breakfast, in the car on the way to work whilst stopped at traffic lights, anyway the makes an easy fit in your day. This process is designed to set the tone of the day so that the things you desire will flow into your day. It is designed to stop you feeling as though you have gotten of the wrong side of bed!

The intention can include items from the "clarity" exercise.

I intend to be prosperous and abundant.
I intend to excel at work.
I intend to be joyful.
I intend to meet great people.



As well as things that are specific for today.

Maybe you've got a big meeting.
I intend to be calm and confident.

Maybe there is a confrontation looming.
I intend to allow others point of view.

Or you can have the all purpose statement.
I intend to have a great day!

As you progress in this process you may feel you want to advance to the next phase. This should be natural. If the statement comes to you, go with it!

I expect an easy flow of money.
I expect great success.
I expect fun and joyful experiences.
I expect to make new friends.


And as you progress still further, you can move to the "I am" and " I have" statements that become your personal "Law".

I am abundant.
I am prosperous
I have fantastic friends.
I have my ideal partner.
I am joyful.



3/ Collecting

As during the "Clarity " exercise, You need to become a collector. Continue to add to you list of desires.

See someone in a great new car. On the list.
A big new TV. On the list.
Some great clothes. On the list.

The list then becomes the resource to intend, expect and create law.

It is important when you see someone with things that you desire that the pangs of envy and jealousy do not arise. Instead admire the person for being able to become vibrationally aligned with such things.


4/ The Compass

Through out the day you need to monitor your feelings to determine if you are creating positively or negatively. During the hustle and bustle of a modern workday this can be difficult.
Look for natural opportunities such as coffee and lunch break to take a moment, and it is only a moment to check how you feeling. You could even set the alarm on your phone or PDA to remind you to pause for 10 seconds and check how you are feeling.

Feeling good. Consult the intentions you wrote down in the morning and read.

"I intend to have a great day!"

Feeling fearful. Consult the intentions you wrote down in the morning and read.

We can also use your expectation to check that are buliding our vibrations in alignment. We can check our "expectation" by asking:

"What am I expecting?"

For example we desire money to pay some bills.

We create a picture of the statement with a zero balance. We feel good.

But subsequently during the day we suffer felings of worry and doubt.

Ask: "What am I expecting?"

Exploring your feeliings and you find they are driven by the fear and worry about what will happen if you don't pay the bills on time.

No we choose a new thought and move to a better feeling place.

" I Intend to be abundant!"

"I intend to be calm and confident."

Still no improvement?

" I intend to have a great day"
"I intend to receive large sums of money"
"I am joyful and Happy!"

Once we are experiencing good or improved feelings we can move on with our day as we have moved our vibrations closer to alignment with the non-physical.

"There is nothing more important than feeling good"
Abraham - Hicks.

So by following this process during the day we can ensure we are positively creating.



5/ Give Thanks!

One area I have used LOA very successfully is in my sales career where I found if I could create a positive vibration that sales literally came to me in the most amazing ways. But what I did find was that if a sale did come to me that I had to maintain myself in the moment otherwise the sale would fall through in all sorts of inexplicable ways. So I had to ensure that I processed the sale focussed in that moment. Not think about how many sales I had done for the day or what it meant for my monthly target. I recently saw a Wayne Dyer video on intent and he was talking about not telling people about what your intentions were as this exposed them to ego and maybe this is what is at work here. That once I matched my creating to an ego driven score card it disrupted the creating vibrations.

So I found that when it appeared as though I was about to receive, I would give thanks!

Thankyou! Thankyou! Thankyou! Thankyou! Thankyou! Thankyou! Thankyou!

I found this help my thoughts from straying but it also put me position of feeling as though I had already received which means my vibrations are in alignment with the non-physical.

I also think it is a great thing at the end of the day to review the feelings and experiences and say a gentle THANKYOU.

"Thankyou for the great people I met."

"Thankyou for the money that flowed to me today."

"Thankyou for the successful meeting I had today."

"Thankyou for the great sales I made today."

"Thankyou for my great family."

It helps you align and puts you in a great place for the following day.



Daily Summary

1/ Days Start - Meditation - Reboot and Refresh

2/ Set the Tone - I intend to.....

3/ Collecting - What do I want?

4/ The Compass - What am I feeling? What do I expect?

5/ Give Thanks!




With practice these simple steps will become part of your normal day and allow you to active create and live apositive and wondeful life.

SO iwish you great creating and remember to:

Always Expect the Best!



Graham T has been seeking to live a better life through enlightment and spirituality for over 25 years and feels compelled to share his ideas, concepts and the fruits of his journey so far.

Heavily influenced by the writings of Florence Scovel Shinn and Neale Donald Walsch, it was the revelation by Abraham with Esther and Jerry Hicks that our feelings can be used as a guide to indicate whether weare in alignment with our non-physical selves, that enabled Graham to make large forward leaps in his life, after being bound by his sensitivity and the intensity of feelings that he experienced in the preseding years in his life.

His writing describes his experiences in this journey.

If you would like to learn more, visit my blog Law of Attraction Handbook for weekly installments.

To learn more about Abraham with Esther and Jerry Hicks go to:

http://www.abrahamhicks.com